... people, howto assess your own performance, howto be
authoritative, howtobe decisive, howto develop your emotional
intelligence, howto handle difficult people, howtobe interviewed,
how to get ... what is tobe done and how it is tobe done.
2. Preparation – deciding howto conduct the appraisal discus-
sion.
How tobe an Even Better Manager
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All effective managers have these needs to a ... Ability to inspire enthusiasm.
■ Toughness.
How tobe an Even Better Manager
10
Howtobe a better
manager
Better managers recognize that the art of management is something
they need to learn....
... what to change on your tape to increase your happiness.
However, change is never easy.
When you try to change, youhaveto overcome what is on your tape.
Your tape’s job is tohaveyou repeat ... not
your mind. Youhave a choice and do not haveto automatically repeat what
is on your tape even though your tape is programmed tohaveyou repeat your
past thoughts and actions.
Ifyou ...
attain. Ifyou desire tobe the best in the world, you need tohave the
strongest desire. On the other hand, ifyou only want tobe mediocre, you
only need a mediocre desire.
On a scale of 1 to...
... fries
isn’t going to help your waistline or your health. But if you
know how and where to look, there’s plenty of good stuff to be
found in fast-food restaurants. This book will help you steer
clear ... eat-
ing is a sure-fire way to take in excess calories. Here’s why:
once your stomach’s stretch receptors sense that it is close to
being full, they send a signal to your brain to stop eating.
Unfortunately, ... up to pounds lost just as quickly and surely as those extra
calories have been increasing your weight. As your weight and
belly go down, your energy will increase. You ll look better and
feel better...
... meeting. Should yoube honest To call a spade a spade” to your boss? .No, that is the
last thing you should do, instead, you d better “sandwich” your criticism by pleading the need
to look at the ... me where I am today “she
said. To make an accurate definition what you want tobe and who you are, is the crux of the
problem. Your goal must be based on your own adjustment and be pursued with ...
belief that you will make it
Still another quality is not to argue, that’s perseverance. Indeed, life is not a bed of roses, but
life is struggle in which you may be met with failure, if you...
... what eagles
do. Ifyou take a duck and ask it to do an eagle’s job, shame on you. As a
leader, your job is to help your ducks to become better ducks and your
eagles better eagles to put individuals ... choice. It’s a gift youhave whatever
you have. The only real choice youhave is whether or not you will try to
develop it. And ifyou do, the growth in that area will not be as dramatic.
After ...
changed.They can change themselves, but you can’t change them. Ifyou
want good people, youhaveto find them. Ifyou want motivated people,
you haveto find them, not motivate them.
I picked...
... User 35
2.3. Howto Get a Promotion 36
3. Serving YourTeam 36
3.1. Howto Develop Talent 36
3.2. Howto Choose What to Work On 37
3.3. Howto Get the Most From Your Teammates 37
3.4. Howto Divide ... that you or your customers consider a system or a subsystem tobe too slow. Before you
try to make it faster, you must build a mental model of why it is slow. To do this you can use a
profiling tool ... company's customers in only the smallest possible way. Re-
lating each bug to a happy customer, however, is personally motivating to me.
1.2. Howtobe Widely Trusted
To be trusted you must be trustworthy....
... them up to take greater responsibility. If that is too
much to try, do it a little at a time.
Evaluate yourself. Ifyou want to become a better programmer, ask someone you admire how you
can become ... isolated and so that it can
be swapped out. If the component proves tobe completely unworkable, you may be able to get a
different one, but you may haveto write your own. Encapsulation is not ... Evenif a core language is mandated and beyond
your control, it is often the case that tools and other programs can and should be written in a dif-
ferent language. If a language is tobe embedded...
... từ,
begins with beliefs. thực sự là bắt đầu bằng niềm tin.
You behave the way you behave because of what you believe. Bạn hành xử theo cách của bạn vì những gì bạn tin tưởng.
So if I want youto ... their beliefs. và một số người khác thì không, hoàn to n do niềm tin của họ.
If you believe this opportunity can measurably Nếu bạn tin rằng cơ hội có ý nghĩa đáng kể
help you in your life, you ... lãnh đạo tin rằng
that if I can only correct your behaviors, nếu tôi có thể sửa chữa hành vi của bạn,
if I can show youhow your behavior could be improved, nếu tôi có thể cho bạn biết những...
... attention to what interests
them.
Thinking is a way of trying to find out for yourself. If you
always blindly accepted what others told you there
would be nothing tobe curious about.
One way to ... develop your curiosity is to begin to ask more
questions, both when you are talking with others and
when you are talking in your mind to yourself.
Questioning, carefully done, helps youto distinguish
between ... rediscover.
Rodin
Put yourself into the shoes of an inventor. Youhave become
dissatisfied with the solution to some existing problem or
daily necessity. You are casting about in your mind for a new
idea....
... for you by your relatives, neither is the ministry.
You now think you are in love with a good young girl. How will you comfort her
when sorrows come to you? She, too, fears death and pain beyond ... You
do not stand erect. Your ideas of the after-life seem to belie your professed creeds.
One of your sincere friends and true helpers requests my candid service in your behalf
as noting your ... it ere you meet the lady. She is in the bottom of the cup. Why haveyou left her so
long. I can hardly find her. You will need to strive for your good fate.
She is to pass out of your life I...
... spare time to generate enough new revenue to pay for
the assistant?”
You can’t be sure, but it’s amazing how creative you get
when you owe money. Ifyou want to grow in your business,
you d better ... does not motivate you; the stick motivates you.
So you will need to wield your own stick.
This is one of those universal laws. Ifyou want to grow
muscles and you go to the gym, you must experience
discomfort. ... money.
If you are the most successful advisor in your town, you
may have one-half of a percent of the market share of financial
services there. Is it possible for youto double your share to
one...
... pictures, that youhaveto defocus your eyes before you
see the hidden 3-D. image. It is willed, but not consciously done. You
just haveto trust your body, intuition, the Spirit, the Life Wisdom, ... number of words
would have been required to do this verbally.
- Look for ‘bad’ facts too
‘Rules’ about what ‘shouldn’t be is the other thing that leads to
blindness to what is. We haveto ... Google Howtobe creative’. I did, and found a free ebook by
that name, by Hugh Mac Leod. It is great, though it has a bite to it! It’s
at: http://.changethis.com/manifesto/show/6.HowToBeCreative...