CHAPTER LOVE Student: _ Schoebi (2008) studied hard (anger) and soft (depression) emotions and found that when one partner displayed hard emotions, the other partner: A mirrored those emotions B displayed the opposite emotions C tried to console (soften) the partner D became nonresponsive According to Demir (2008) involvement in a romantic relationship: A is associated with increasing one's happiness only if the person is an introvert B is associated with increasing one's happiness only if the person is an extrovert C is associated with increasing one's happiness independent of one's personality D is associated with increasing one's happiness only if the person is bipolar Love style where the person keeps you at a distance and dates others simultaneously is: A ludus B eros C mania D agape The love a parent has for a child is: A ludus B eros C mania D agape Which type of lover assesses his or her partner on the basis of assets and liabilities? A pragma B mania C ledger D storge What is the most common style of love of women and men college students? A ludus B eros C mania D agape What is the least common style of love of undergraduate college students? A ludus B eros C mania D agape Another word for "conjugal" love is love A pragma B ludus C married D eros The lover representing this love style does not become involved in interracial, long-distance, or age-discrepant relationships A pragma B ludus C mania D storge 10 What style of love might your grandparents have for each other? A storge B ludus C agape D pragma 11 What style of love might Chinese couples have for each other? A storge B ludus C agape D pragma 12 In terms of falling in love at first sight and willingness to marry soon after meeting,: A women are more likely B men are more likely C there is no gender difference D no research is available on this issue 13 When couples who fell in love at first sight are compared with those who did not: A couples who fell in love at first sight have higher marital quality B couples who reported that love grew over time had higher marital quality C there is no difference in marital quality D no research is available on this issue 14 In regard to love being able to solve any problem a couple may confront: A men are more likely than women to believe this B women are more likely than men to believe this C there is no gender difference, both men and women don't believe this D there is no gender difference, both men and women believe this 15 According to your text, infatuation is characterized by the tendency to: A magnify one's lover's positive qualities B overlook or minimize one's lover's negative qualities C compare one's current love with a previous love D both a and b 16 The term "infatuation" comes from the same root word as "fatuous," meaning: A brief or short-lived B insignificant or meaningless C silly or foolish D overflowing or abundant 17 When men say "I love you," they use the phrase (more often than women): A as a ploy to get the partner to become more emotionally involved B as a ploy to get the partner to have sex C as a ploy to get the partner to commit D none of the above 18 What percent of the marriages in China, India, and Indonesia (three countries representing 40 percent of the world's population) are arranged by parents? A 10 percent B 20 percent C 40 percent D 80 percent 19 What is the significance of the fact that 95 percent of U.S adults marry within their race? A our freedom to marry anyone we wish is paramount B less than five percent of our population can be regarded as individualistic thinkers C cultural and social forces influence have no real effect on our mate choices D due to social influences, it is an illusion that we are free to marry anyone we want 20 Diamond (2003) found that in regard to love: A individuals are biologically wired to fall in love with persons of the same sex B individuals are biologically wired to fall in love with persons of the other sex C individuals are biologically wired to fall in love with either sex D the direction of one's sexual and emotional desires is the same 21 Maria and Max have just begun to see each other regularly¾who will fall in love first? A Maria B Max C both at the same time D they will probably not fall in love 22 Ancient Buddhists conceived of two types of love: A self-love and creative spiritual attainment B love of people and love of Buddha C irrational love and rational love D peaceful love and disturbing love 23 The word "philanthropia" means: A love of the human body B love of women C love of God D love of humankind 24 According to Plato, what is the highest form of love? A mother-child love B love of God C homosexual love D husband-wife love 25 Which of the following is not used to describe love as experienced by the Chinese? A respect B mutual understanding C romance D support 26 In medieval Europe, romantic love had its origin in: A extramarital love B was not expected between spouses C both a and b D neither a nor b 27 In colonial America the dowry: A was money paid by the father of the daughter to her husband to get him to marry her B was money paid by the groom to the father so he would let him marry the daughter C existed since being an unmarried woman was stigmatized D both a and c 28 The "four year itch" identified by Fisher is: A the 4th year of marriage, when husbands first cheat B the time when both spouses consider experimenting with others C the time when wives evaluate/decide if they want to have a second child D the term for when parents of one child are most likely to divorce 29 This theory of love emphasizes the emotional bonding of two adults to care for infants A ontological B psychosexual C ego-ideal D evolutionary 30 Using evolutionary theory of love, when is a couple with one child likely to divorce? A first year B fourth year C just before puberty of the child D at the time a pregnancy is confirmed with a second child 31 This term refers to being annoyed and disgusted by a repeated behavior of one's partner A satiation B negative reinforcement C oxytocin D social allergy 32 According to Freud's psychosexual theory, love results from: A blocked biological sexual desires B projecting one's love for oneself onto another person C projecting one's love for one's parents onto another person D removal of repressed negative memories to allow for the blossoming of love 33 The hormone oxytocin has been referred to as the: A "jealousy chemical" because of its association with jealous feelings B "cuddle chemical" because of its significance in bonding C "gay chemical" because of its high level in the bloodstream of gay women and men D "divorce chemical" because of its association with not being committed 34 Phenylethylamine (PEA) is a(n) substance produced in the brain that is associated with people's reporting that they are experiencing love feelings A amphetamine-like B hallucinogen-like C analgesic-like D barbiturate-like 35 Ira Reiss's wheel theory of love has all of the following elements except: A personality need fulfillment B mutual dependency C libido attraction D self-revelation 36 In regard to using their "heart" or "head" in making relationship choices: A most college students reported using their heart B most college students reported using their head C most college students reported that they alternated¾it was about half and half D most college students reported that they "didn't know"¾they had never thought of it 37 Sternberg's concept of liking is which of the following? A intimacy and commitment without passion B passion and commitment without intimacy C intimacy without passion or commitment D passion without possessiveness 38 Halpern et al (2005) studied adolescent females and found that for each one point increase in body mass index (BMI), the probability of involvement in a romantic relationship by 6% A increased B decreased C decreased then increased D increased then decreased 39 High self esteem is associated with all of the following except: A it allows one to feel generally equal to others B it allows one to take responsibility for success and failure C it allows one to accept the strength and weaknesses of others D it allows one to be successful in the economic arena 40 This psychological factor is associated with the development of love? A creativity B high I.Q C self-disclosure D neuroticism 41 How might watching a scary movie with a partner affect the relationship? A love feelings might increase B love feelings might decrease C love feelings would not be affected by being in a haunted house D libido feelings would increase 42 Ross (2006) found the effect of telling your partner of your tastes/interests was: A relationship satisfaction might increase B relationship satisfaction might decrease C no effect D depends on sexual orientation of the partners 43 Individuals who have had the front part of their brain removed due to brain cancer: A are incapable of feeling love B develop a strong attraction and bond to the first individual they see after surgery C are only able to recognize individuals whom they love D have bouts of violent behavior (which can be controlled with medication) 44 Kate delights in male partner having emotional/sexual relationships with other women The term to describe this phenomenon is: A alter ego disorder B mania disorder C necronomia D compersion 45 When a woman is experiencing jealousy, she is most likely to: A eat B exercise vigorously C drink D take drugs to cope with her depression 46 The primary reason for stalking is: A rejection by an intimate or a stranger B erotic satisfaction in the pursuit of a denied object C psycopathological schizoid disorder D lust thwarted syndrome 47 The most common stalking behavior is: A obsessional following B use of the phone¾calling, leaving messages C email (including sending electronic cards) D letters (including photos the person has taken of you without your awareness) 48 The best way to discourage a stalker is to: A make direct statements backed up by behavior of disinterest to the stalker B don't confront the stalker directly but have someone else (e.g parents) so C involve the police immediately so as to severely punish the behavior D ignore the stalker 49 Which of the following is an example of anxious jealousy? A the murder of ex-wife by O J Simpson B obsessive ruminations about the partner's alleged infidelity C feeling hurt and confronting the partner when abandoned at a party D being upset when a partner is VERY late 50 Which of the following is most likely to include jealousy? A new relationships of less than one-year duration B a couple who live together C a married couple D relationships where one partner is thinking termination 51 Levy (2007) predicts that by 2050 individuals will have romantic relationships with robots True False 52 Jealousy is more likely to occur in new (less than a year) relationships than older (more than a year) relationships True False 53 The more individuals are in love/committed, the less likely they are to use a condom True False 54 An eros love style is less frequent than ludus among college students True False 55 Being romantically in love with one partner helps to deflect the development of a new love True False 56 The lower the self esteem, the higher the jealousy True False 57 Most companies have policies restricting romantic relationships between employees True False 58 Schoebi (2008) identified hard (angry) and soft (depression) emotions and found that spouses counteracted each other's emotions¾when one was angry, the other tended to be soft True False 59 Men who become jealous are more likely to turn to alcohol than to friends True False 60 Romantic love increases one's personal happiness, independent of the person's personality Even if you tend to be a happy person, love will make you happier True False 61 Specify how parents in China, India, and Indonesia control who their children fall in love with and who they marry 62 For all the joy love brings, it can become a context for having a lot of problems How? 63 Specify the pros and cons of workplace romances 64 Discuss the potential negative and positive consequences of jealousy for individuals and their relationships 65 Compare and contrast the beliefs about love of the romantic and the realist by gender 66 Discuss how love is NOT BLIND but very targeted 67 Compare how women and men cope with feeling jealous 68 What is the origin of stalking, who stalks the most and how? 69 Explain the various forms of polyamory 70 Discuss the various social, psychological, physiological, body type and cognitive conditions under which love develops 71 Examine how love in the workplace can work to the advantage and disadvantage of workers and employers 10 72 Discuss the degree to which college students make relationship decisions with their heart versus their head 73 Discuss how African-Americans and whites view love differently 74 Discuss how love between spouses in Medieval Europe was conceptualized and why? When did this change and why? 75 Discuss why the fourth year of marriage is associated with an increase in divorce rates 11 CHAPTER LOVE Key Schoebi (2008) studied hard (anger) and soft (depression) emotions and found that when one partner displayed hard emotions, the other partner: A B C D According to Demir (2008) involvement in a romantic relationship: A B C D pragma mania ledger storge What is the most common style of love of women and men college students? A B C D ludus eros mania agape Which type of lover assesses his or her partner on the basis of assets and liabilities? A B C D ludus eros mania agape The love a parent has for a child is: A B C D is associated with increasing one's happiness only if the person is an introvert is associated with increasing one's happiness only if the person is an extrovert is associated with increasing one's happiness independent of one's personality is associated with increasing one's happiness only if the person is bipolar Love style where the person keeps you at a distance and dates others simultaneously is: A B C D mirrored those emotions displayed the opposite emotions tried to console (soften) the partner became nonresponsive ludus eros mania agape What is the least common style of love of undergraduate college students? A B C D ludus eros mania agape Another word for "conjugal" love is love A B C D The lover representing this love style does not become involved in interracial, long-distance, or age-discrepant relationships A B C D 10 couples who fell in love at first sight have higher marital quality couples who reported that love grew over time had higher marital quality there is no difference in marital quality no research is available on this issue In regard to love being able to solve any problem a couple may confront: A B C D 15 women are more likely men are more likely there is no gender difference no research is available on this issue When couples who fell in love at first sight are compared with those who did not: A B C D 14 storge ludus agape pragma In terms of falling in love at first sight and willingness to marry soon after meeting,: A B C D 13 storge ludus agape pragma What style of love might Chinese couples have for each other? A B C D 12 pragma ludus mania storge What style of love might your grandparents have for each other? A B C D 11 pragma ludus married eros men are more likely than women to believe this women are more likely than men to believe this there is no gender difference, both men and women don't believe this there is no gender difference, both men and women believe this According to your text, infatuation is characterized by the tendency to: A B C D magnify one's lover's positive qualities overlook or minimize one's lover's negative qualities compare one's current love with a previous love both a and b 16 The term "infatuation" comes from the same root word as "fatuous," meaning: A B C D 17 When men say "I love you," they use the phrase (more often than women): A B C D 18 Maria Max both at the same time they will probably not fall in love Ancient Buddhists conceived of two types of love: A B C D 23 individuals are biologically wired to fall in love with persons of the same sex individuals are biologically wired to fall in love with persons of the other sex individuals are biologically wired to fall in love with either sex the direction of one's sexual and emotional desires is the same Maria and Max have just begun to see each other regularly¾who will fall in love first? A B C D 22 our freedom to marry anyone we wish is paramount less than five percent of our population can be regarded as individualistic thinkers cultural and social forces influence have no real effect on our mate choices due to social influences, it is an illusion that we are free to marry anyone we want Diamond (2003) found that in regard to love: A B C D 21 10 percent 20 percent 40 percent 80 percent What is the significance of the fact that 95 percent of U.S adults marry within their race? A B C D 20 as a ploy to get the partner to become more emotionally involved as a ploy to get the partner to have sex as a ploy to get the partner to commit none of the above What percent of the marriages in China, India, and Indonesia (three countries representing 40 percent of the world's population) are arranged by parents? A B C D 19 brief or short-lived insignificant or meaningless silly or foolish overflowing or abundant self-love and creative spiritual attainment love of people and love of Buddha irrational love and rational love peaceful love and disturbing love The word "philanthropia" means: A B C D love of the human body love of women love of God love of humankind 24 According to Plato, what is the highest form of love? A B C D 25 Which of the following is not used to describe love as experienced by the Chinese? A B C D 26 ontological psychosexual ego-ideal evolutionary Using evolutionary theory of love, when is a couple with one child likely to divorce? A B C D 31 the 4th year of marriage, when husbands first cheat the time when both spouses consider experimenting with others the time when wives evaluate/decide if they want to have a second child the term for when parents of one child are most likely to divorce This theory of love emphasizes the emotional bonding of two adults to care for infants A B C D 30 was money paid by the father of the daughter to her husband to get him to marry her was money paid by the groom to the father so he would let him marry the daughter existed since being an unmarried woman was stigmatized both a and c The "four year itch" identified by Fisher is: A B C D 29 extramarital love was not expected between spouses both a and b neither a nor b In colonial America the dowry: A B C D 28 respect mutual understanding romance support In medieval Europe, romantic love had its origin in: A B C D 27 mother-child love love of God homosexual love husband-wife love first year fourth year just before puberty of the child at the time a pregnancy is confirmed with a second child This term refers to being annoyed and disgusted by a repeated behavior of one's partner A B C D satiation negative reinforcement oxytocin social allergy 32 According to Freud's psychosexual theory, love results from: A B C D 33 The hormone oxytocin has been referred to as the: A B C D 34 intimacy and commitment without passion passion and commitment without intimacy intimacy without passion or commitment passion without possessiveness Halpern et al (2005) studied adolescent females and found that for each one point increase in body mass index (BMI), the probability of involvement in a romantic relationship by 6% A B C D 39 most college students reported using their heart most college students reported using their head most college students reported that they alternated¾it was about half and half most college students reported that they "didn't know"¾they had never thought of it Sternberg's concept of liking is which of the following? A B C D 38 personality need fulfillment mutual dependency libido attraction self-revelation In regard to using their "heart" or "head" in making relationship choices: A B C D 37 amphetamine-like hallucinogen-like analgesic-like barbiturate-like Ira Reiss's wheel theory of love has all of the following elements except: A B C D 36 "jealousy chemical" because of its association with jealous feelings "cuddle chemical" because of its significance in bonding "gay chemical" because of its high level in the bloodstream of gay women and men "divorce chemical" because of its association with not being committed Phenylethylamine (PEA) is a(n) substance produced in the brain that is associated with people's reporting that they are experiencing love feelings A B C D 35 blocked biological sexual desires projecting one's love for oneself onto another person projecting one's love for one's parents onto another person removal of repressed negative memories to allow for the blossoming of love increased decreased decreased then increased increased then decreased High self esteem is associated with all of the following except: A B C D it allows one to feel generally equal to others it allows one to take responsibility for success and failure it allows one to accept the strength and weaknesses of others it allows one to be successful in the economic arena 40 This psychological factor is associated with the development of love? A B C D 41 How might watching a scary movie with a partner affect the relationship? A B C D 42 eat exercise vigorously drink take drugs to cope with her depression The primary reason for stalking is: A B C D 47 alter ego disorder mania disorder necronomia compersion When a woman is experiencing jealousy, she is most likely to: A B C D 46 are incapable of feeling love develop a strong attraction and bond to the first individual they see after surgery are only able to recognize individuals whom they love have bouts of violent behavior (which can be controlled with medication) Kate delights in male partner having emotional/sexual relationships with other women The term to describe this phenomenon is: A B C D 45 relationship satisfaction might increase relationship satisfaction might decrease no effect depends on sexual orientation of the partners Individuals who have had the front part of their brain removed due to brain cancer: A B C D 44 love feelings might increase love feelings might decrease love feelings would not be affected by being in a haunted house libido feelings would increase Ross (2006) found the effect of telling your partner of your tastes/interests was: A B C D 43 creativity high I.Q self-disclosure neuroticism rejection by an intimate or a stranger erotic satisfaction in the pursuit of a denied object psycopathological schizoid disorder lust thwarted syndrome The most common stalking behavior is: A B C D obsessional following use of the phone¾calling, leaving messages email (including sending electronic cards) letters (including photos the person has taken of you without your awareness) 48 The best way to discourage a stalker is to: A B C D 49 Which of the following is an example of anxious jealousy? A B C D 50 the murder of ex-wife by O J Simpson obsessive ruminations about the partner's alleged infidelity feeling hurt and confronting the partner when abandoned at a party being upset when a partner is VERY late Which of the following is most likely to include jealousy? A B C D 51 make direct statements backed up by behavior of disinterest to the stalker don't confront the stalker directly but have someone else (e.g parents) so involve the police immediately so as to severely punish the behavior ignore the stalker new relationships of less than one-year duration a couple who live together a married couple relationships where one partner is thinking termination Levy (2007) predicts that by 2050 individuals will have romantic relationships with robots TRUE 52 Jealousy is more likely to occur in new (less than a year) relationships than older (more than a year) relationships TRUE 53 The more individuals are in love/committed, the less likely they are to use a condom TRUE 54 An eros love style is less frequent than ludus among college students FALSE 55 Being romantically in love with one partner helps to deflect the development of a new love TRUE 56 The lower the self esteem, the higher the jealousy TRUE 57 Most companies have policies restricting romantic relationships between employees FALSE 58 Schoebi (2008) identified hard (angry) and soft (depression) emotions and found that spouses counteracted each other's emotions¾when one was angry, the other tended to be soft FALSE 59 Men who become jealous are more likely to turn to alcohol than to friends TRUE 60 Romantic love increases one's personal happiness, independent of the person's personality Even if you tend to be a happy person, love will make you happier TRUE 61 Specify how parents in China, India, and Indonesia control who their children fall in love with and who they marry Answer not provided 62 For all the joy love brings, it can become a context for having a lot of problems How? Answer not provided 63 Specify the pros and cons of workplace romances Answer not provided 64 Discuss the potential negative and positive consequences of jealousy for individuals and their relationships Answer not provided 65 Compare and contrast the beliefs about love of the romantic and the realist by gender Answer not provided 66 Discuss how love is NOT BLIND but very targeted Answer not provided 67 Compare how women and men cope with feeling jealous Answer not provided 68 What is the origin of stalking, who stalks the most and how? Answer not provided 69 Explain the various forms of polyamory Answer not provided 70 Discuss the various social, psychological, physiological, body type and cognitive conditions under which love develops Answer not provided 71 Examine how love in the workplace can work to the advantage and disadvantage of workers and employers Answer not provided 72 Discuss the degree to which college students make relationship decisions with their heart versus their head Answer not provided 73 Discuss how African-Americans and whites view love differently Answer not provided 74 Discuss how love between spouses in Medieval Europe was conceptualized and why? When did this change and why? Answer not provided 75 Discuss why the fourth year of marriage is associated with an increase in divorce rates Answer not provided 10 ... love and rational love D peaceful love and disturbing love 23 The word "philanthropia" means: A love of the human body B love of women C love of God D love of humankind 24 According to Plato,... of the partners 43 Individuals who have had the front part of their brain removed due to brain cancer: A are incapable of feeling love B develop a strong attraction and bond to the first individual... the potential negative and positive consequences of jealousy for individuals and their relationships 65 Compare and contrast the beliefs about love of the romantic and the realist by gender 66