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THE PRIZE
AND
THE PRICE
SHAPING SEXUALITIES IN SOUTH AFRICA
Edited by Melissa Steyn and Mikki van Zyl
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Foreword v
Acknowledgements vii
Introduction
1 The prize and the price
3
Melissa Steyn and Mikki van Zyl
Negotiating new deals
2 Colouring sexualities: How some black South African schoolgirls respond to ‘racial’
and gendered inequalities
21
Rob Pattman and Deevia Bhana
3 Glamour, glitz and girls: The meanings of femininity in high school Matric Ball
culture in urban South Africa
39
Elaine Salo and Bianca Davids
4 E-race-ing the line: South African interracial relationships yesterday and today 55
Rebecca Sherman and Melissa Steyn
Flipping the coin
5 Renegotiating masculinity in the lowveld: Narratives of male–male sex in
compounds, prisons and at home
85
Isak Niehaus
6 Fauna, flora and fucking: Female sex safaris in South Africa 112
Haley A McEwen
7 Are blind people better lovers? 129
Reinette Popplestone
8 Sexuality in later life 144
Helena B Thornton, Felix CV Potocnik and Jacqueline E Muller
Contents
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Paying the price
9 The weather watchers: Gender, violence and social control
169
Lillian Artz
10 Nurturing the sexuality of disabled girls: The challenges of parenting for
mothers
192
Washeila Sait, Theresa Lorenzo, Melissa Steyn and Mikki van Zyl
11 A decent place? Space and morality in a former ‘poor white’ suburb 220
Annika Teppo
12 Less is (M)orr: Après le déluge (or rather: more or less…): An essay about and
conversation with Margaret Orr
234
Joan Hambidge and Margaret Orr
Holding onto the prize
13 Heterosex among young South Africans: Research reflections
267
Tamara Shefer and Don Foster
14 Apartheid, anti-apartheid and post-apartheid sexualities 290
Kopano Ratele
15 ‘Astride a dangerous dividing line’: A discourse analysis of preschool teachers’ talk
about childhood sexuality
306
Jane van der Riet
Que(e)rying the contract
16 Criminalising the act of sex: Attitudes to adult commercial sex work in
South Africa
329
Jillian Gardner
17 Queer marriage: Sexualising citizenship and the development of freedoms in
South Africa
341
Vasu Reddy
18 Beyond the Constitution: From sexual rights to belonging 364
Mikki van Zyl
Conclusion
19 Shaping sexualities
391
Melissa Steyn and Mikki van Zyl
Contributors 397
Index 404
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‘’ known to me before 1995. However, as a
straight man who considered himself socialist pro-feminist, I assumed that the
concept was primarily important only to people who identified as homosexual or
bisexual. It was their enemy. While I certainly supported their struggles against
that enemy in my heart, my head was focused on what seemed to be obviously much
bigger struggles. Male violence against women, /, structural adjustment,
and other broad anti-democratic forces were all depressingly evident at the time in
both my homes (southern Africa and North America).
An inkling of doubt about this confident ordering of priorities came soon
after I took up a lectureship at the University of Zimbabwe in 1995. Robert Mugabe
and his supporters began attacking gays and lesbians with such hyperbolic rhetoric
that one could hardly fail to notice a disproportion. Why such a fuss over a gay
rights movement that was politically and socially so utterly marginal? I assumed
some gay scholar somewhere would take up the challenge to explain (as indeed
several did, quite convincingly).
The pertinence of heteronormativity to my own research interests only began
to dawn on me at a conference that I attended on the history of women and gender
in South Africa around this time. After two or three intense days, an anonymous
comment appeared on the bulletin board – something to the eect of, ‘Gawd,
this conference is so heterosexist!’ It was not too dicult to intuit who among my
fellow delegates was the author, and indeed, when I approached him to enquire he
readily confessed. More to the point, my new friend patiently walked me through
the meaning of the term and the importance of the critique it oered. Exclusive,
lifelong heterosexuality is not a natural condition but has to be carefully cultivated
and constantly recreated as a hegemonic ideology in the face of changing material
circumstances and in relation to multiple marginal identities and practices. Many
aspects of the dominant expressions of heterosexuality that we commonly assume to
be natural and normal (notably, men are active and penetrators, women are passive
and penetrated, but also, old people, children and disabled people are asexual) are
in fact deeply contested and contingent. Homophobia (and heterosexism) are not
simply the concerns of a non-normative minority but are central to the ways that
sexuality for the whole of society is organised and experienced.
All my work on the history of gender up to this point suddenly seemed
embarrassingly simplistic. My passivity in response to homophobic politics in
Zimbabwe suddenly seemed unconscionable. I felt compelled to go back to my
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sources, and to re-examine my vocabularies and other choices, to see where and how
they were aected by this invisible juggernaut, heteronormativity. I felt like a fish
discovering he lived in the sea.
More than a decade since that epiphany, what a thrill it is to see hetero-
normativity so squarely and thoroughly problematised in this erudite yet accessible
volume. The book is directed at people like the old me, which is to say, you know
about and generally sympathise with gay rights or queer theory, in theory. In
practice, you are not quite clear how these might apply to (and enrich) your own
work. You might even avoid some of the issues out of anxiety that some uninten-
tional mangling of the latest terminology identifies you as embarrassingly out of
touch. This book says, don’t worry about it. Just get on board.
I don’t mean to be flippant here. On the contrary, much of The Prize and
the Price makes for heavy reading. Many of the chapters deal with horrific abuses
and dehumanising tendencies in social practice that take place within the rubric of
‘normal’ – rape, paedophilia, layer upon layer of racism, exploitative and degrading
sex work or sex tourism, and more. This will not really surprise most readers, I
expect. South Africans since 1994 have had to begin to renegotiate the norms of
race, class, gender and other identities laid down over centuries of ideology, violence
and law. It would have been dicult and painful even without the explosion of
heterosexually transmitted /.
The authors do try to bring out elements of positive change, dignity and
pleasure to be found within this discouraging menu. Still, it is hard to avoid the
feeling that even with good intentions and lots of money, South Africans will be
working to resolve these issues for a long time. We should probably not assume that
good intentions and money can be relied upon.
Happily, as the chapters in this book demonstrate, there is room for
optimism that currently hegemonic heteronormativity is being challenged in
promising ways. People’s dignity, creativity and complex sexuality can be freed up
from the toxicity and limitations of the past. It also gives me a feeling of optimism
that works such as this are strong enough to be noticed beyond the roiling but small
environment of South African academe. Much of the theorisation of sexuality in the
west, for example, including supposedly cutting-edge queer theory, is terribly westo-
centric, parochial or patronising towards African scholars and theorists. My hope,
which the editors modestly articulate, is that The Prize and the Price can contribute
to the enrichment and maturity of sexuality studies globally.
Marc Epprecht
Associate Professor, Department of Global Development Studies,
Queen’s University, Kingston
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Firstly we would like to thank our authors for their patience and commitment
to the project. We are also grateful to i and Simply Said and Done
for logistical and administrative support, and thank the reviewers for their
thoughtful comments.
Melissa
I appreciate Reg for his love and support and Thembisa for her constant assistance
that frees up my time.
Mikki
I cannot express my gratitude to Pauline, for her enduring love, support and loyalty.
Melissa Steyn and Mikki van Zyl
Cape Town, June 2008
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For everyone who has ever wanted to enjoy their sexuality.
Melissa
For Emily: may she have the freedom to be herself.
Mikki
For my mother, who taught me to think for myself, and always to Pauline.
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Sex is for pleasure. It is for the nation and people.
(Nomxolisi Dandaza, nursing sister and mthwasa, sangoma ‘initiate’)
(in Thornton 2003: 4)
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