... only cause them to get defensive, and perhaps the same to you If you’re unable to communicate effectively, take responsibility for that If you not successfully get your point across, not solely ... that can help you get that long-awaited point across: Understand that your anger is a normal, natural reaction It’s okay to feel angry about a wrongdoing However, at a certain point, anger becomes ... argument and you begin to raise your voice, get upset, flail your arms, speak ill of others, you become irrational People are rarely going to hear you in this state of mind Try not to take things personally...