... information, but give as many details as you can, as the court may raise a query if it appears that any children are not looked after by an adult all of the time If a relative (for example, a grandparent) ... reconciliation If you are in any doubt, consider seeking marriage guidance at Relate (for details, see Appendix 2) If your spouse does not want to go to Relate, they can always advise you on your own ... one year has elapsed from the date of the marriage Accordingly, if you have not yet been married for a year then you will have to wait until one year and a day after the date of the marriage before...