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... feel the need to criticise others, then treat them in the way you would like to be treated.● Only criticise behaviour the person can change● Be as specific as you can● Be able to give other ... briefly my position and the reasons for it ’If there is going to be any sensible discussion, the other person has to let you put yourcase. If they are not prepared to listen then you are wasting ... of similar behaviour by the other person● Make the criticism as soon after the ‘behaviour’ as possible; otherwise it will not be helpful - do not be drawn into ‘and another thing’ accusations●...

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... enough to make you realise that:a) if they say no, they are unlikely to reject you personally, and b) if they do want to reject you then the price of their friendship is too high anyway13THREE ... rejectionThis is the extreme version of fear of upsetting others. If we upset someone by askingfor what we want, we fear they will withdraw their regard for us and reject us altogether.● In any ... in the case of a personal filterit removes all the positive things that occur in your life. Rather like the reverse of rose-tinted glasses, people who filter only accept bad news about themselves...

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... leading the group astray. Applaud their courage instanding up for their opinions and constantly ask them for negative comments so as toget both sides of the argument out in the open.(When the ... WHISPERERProfile● Makes whispered comments to neighbour. NB There is only one whisperer - the otheris the whisperee! In many cases the whisperee is an unwilling accomplice so youonly have one ... unthreateningly at them2. Wait for them to look at you3. Non-verbally ask for their permission to continue (eyebrows raised, head-nod and perhaps a silent-mouthed 'OK?') The sincerity...

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... honest with ourselvesand with others.When we are honest with ourselves and with others we are able to achieve what we wantwithout compromise. 7 THE ASSERTIVENESS POCKETBOOKBy Max A. Eggert Drawings ... relationships● At work the person doing the job is the one who can make the most significant contribution to improvements on the job● The political value and power behind the equality movement ... pursue what they want3NEEDS OF OTHERSOUR NEEDSNEEDS OF OTHERSOUR NEEDSNON ASSERTIVE ASSERTIVE AGGRESSIVEINTRODUCTIONKEEPING A BALANCEIn assertiveness we balance the needs of others with...

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... selfish. They know what they want and like, anddisregard the needs of others in satisfying their own needs.Aggressive people think of themselves as superior beings. They think they are OK and the ... expressing them● Easily and frequently finds fault with others● Continually works to personal agendas at the expense of others● Rarely feels aware of the needs or feelings of others● Competes ... superior beings. They think they are OK and the rest of the world is not. They voice their opinions and needs, and behave as if othersdo not matter. The origin for aggressive behaviour is complex. Perhaps...

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... from others● Expect to use these rights without being asked to justify your behaviour● Encourage others to use these rights for themselves● Expect society to support you in the exercise of these ... of their own behaviour independent of the goodwill of others● Get what they pay for● Change their mind● Decide whether or not to assert themselves 37 RIGHTS & RESPONSIBILITIES3534THREE ... our reality, then we must perceive ourselves in the right way. One way to do this is through the use of affirmations.If you keep telling yourself you are something then that is the way your...

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... receive from othersChange my mind Help others reach conclusions about their experiences of the worldDecide whether or not to Allow others the freedom to choose how assert myself they behaveRIGHTS ... use their time in the way that they wantAsk for what I want Encourage others to fulfil their needs 47 RIGHTS & RESPONSIBILITIESCORRESPONDING RESPONSIBILITIESRIGHT RESPONSIBILITYI have the ... of othersExpress opinions and feelings Welcome the opinions and feelings of othersSet my own goals Help others to work to their goals and objectivesRefuse a request or say ‘no’ Encourage others...

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... disadvantages might there be for you in continuing with it? 7. Think whether or not you wish to change your behaviour; what would be the advantages to you?8. Make the decision whether or not to ... below,when we are deciding whether or not someone means what they say 55% of the decisionis influenced by body language and only 7% by what is said!!Voice 38%What is said 7% Body Language 55%Consequently, ... procedure or checklist to help you dealwith it.1. Is the person qualified to make the criticism; do they know you well enough?2. Is the behaviour being criticised something it is possible...

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... just the situation itself. It tells the other person directly the effect theirbehaviour is having on you. 73 ASSERTIVENESS SKILLSBROKEN RECORD EXAMPLESExample 2You: ‘I’m not satisfied with the ... time’ The strength of these statements is that they let the other person know your exactposition and what you expect. They don’t have to guess. They can only say ‘Yes’, ‘No’or negotiate. 74 ... Instructions must be given with the appropriate body language to havetheir full impact. (See page 54) 78 ASSERTIVENESS SKILLSPUTTING THE ‘I’s TOGETHERIt is now possible to put together ‘I’ combinations....

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... response to the request is to put up a fog.Listen to what the person says, and decide whether or not you wish to comply. If not,then using their words, or similar, acknowledge their need but ... have the ‘pudding’ first, hoping that they will do the decentthing and give us what we want. If only life was that simple!89 ASSERTIVENESS SKILLSWHENThis is another conjunction which is the ... with such a label?’If the person is genuine and cares for you, such replies will lead to real feedback. Thenyou can decide whether the accusation is justified, and whether you want to do anythingabout...

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