... accusing, admitting, apologizing, challenging, complaining, condoling, congratulating, declining, giving permission, giving way, greeting, leave-taking, mocking, naming, offering, praising, ... meaning in an attempt to create shared understanding. This process requires a vest repertoire of skills in intrapersonal and interpersonal processing, listening, observing, speaking, questioning, ... distinguished by different aspects of the speaker‘s intention: there is the act of saying something, what one does in saying it, such as requesting or promising, and how one is trying to affect...