... know how to solve the problem of personality confl ict? And make no mistake about it, there are defi nite ways to solve it and, surely, to make it better. Thus whether the couple is able to harmonize ... contrast, men are heard to say to their wives, “C’mon, honey, just admit it. It s no big deal. You know you’re wrong about it. Just admit it. Don’t make a federal case out of it. ” These acculturated ... partners respond to the world how they see it as well as how they meld their responses to one another. It s about commonality. And it is precisely this commonality that usually needs work. The reason...