... con dent this time was the right time. is time was the nal time. is time was our time.Copyright © 2009 by Melissa deBin-Parish. Click here for terms of use. 2 THE WEIGHT- LOSS SURGERY CONNECTIONOur ... Life Is Waiting for You!The day of our surgery was so exciting for my husband, Dan, and me. We do almost everything together, and this was no di erent: we chose to have weight- loss surgery ... stood for courage. I was just amazed at everyone’s reaction.My sister and niece saw my results and later had weight- loss surgery as well. Now, my husband, Jack, recently had weight- loss surgery...